We try to provide hope, but not false hope.
So we give ranges, starting with the best estimate of survival, because my patients have told me they shut down after they hear the worst estimate. We talk about setting goals, about maximizing quality of life, because we don’t have much leverage with quantity of life. We emphasize spending as much time as possible with family and friends, and as little time as possible with people wearing white coats. We tell them we’re not going to give up if they don’t give up.
But the truth is, we don’t know.
–Dr. Mikkael Sekeres, director of the leukemia program at the Cleveland Clinic, on hope and numbers in this New York Times post. Powerful.